Private by design

Social media for the people you actually know.

Share photos, updates, and moments with family, friends, and close circlesβ€”without ads, influencers, or algorithms. A calmer, safer place for real relationships.

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Sarah Jenkins
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Shared with: Family

Leo took his first steps today!! 😭 Had to share with everyone right away.

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Mark T.
5 hours ago
Shared with: Neighbours

Having a small BBQ on Saturday afternoon. Everyone on Maple St is welcome! Let me know if you can make it. πŸ”

Everything you love.
Nothing you hate.

Actual Social removes the worst parts of modern social media so you can focus on the people who actually matter.

Typical Social Media

  • Ads and sponsored posts everywhere
  • Algorithm addiction / doom scrolling
  • Public performance pressure
  • Creepy data harvesting and spying
  • A feed full of strangers and influencers

Actual Social

  • Zero ads. Ever.
  • Calm, chronological experience
  • Private sharing. Real relationships.
  • Privacy-first design (no tracking)
  • A feed of people you actually know

Intentional sharing.

You don’t broadcast to "everyone." You choose exactly who each moment is for.

1. Share a moment

Capture a photo, write a life update, or share a fun video from your weekend.

2. Choose who sees it

Pick the exact circles you want to share with: Family, Close Friends, School Parents, or Neighbours.

3. Stay close safely

The right people see it, react, and comment. No strangers, no public exposure.

Post to specific circles

Group your connections into meaningful circles. Your high school friends don't need to see your kids' soccer updates, and your coworkers don't need your family vacation photos.

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Close Friends
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School Parents
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Liam scored his first goal today! ⚽ Thanks to all the parents who cheered him on despite the rain.

A calm, private app for your real world.

We rebuilt the social media experience from the ground up to focus on connection, not consumption. No public follower counts, no viral trends, no noise.

  • Chronological Feed

    See life updates in the order they happen. No algorithm deciding what you should see.

  • Total Audience Control

    Never worry about the wrong person seeing a post. Privacy settings are front and center on every update.

  • Authentic Interaction

    Meaningful comments and reactions from people who actually know you off-screen.

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Stay connected without the burnout.

Actual Social gives you a healthier way to keep up with loved ones, free from the exhaustion of public networks.

Share without performing

No need for perfect lighting or witty captions. Just real updates for the people who care about your messy, normal life.

Feel completely safe

Post photos of your kids or personal milestones knowing exactly who can see themβ€”and who can't.

Keep up, don't get trapped

Check in on your friends and log off. Without an addictive algorithm pushing endless content, you get your time back.

Be social, not drained

Experience the joy of social connection without the anxiety, arguments, and negativity of the public square.

Privacy that actually
means privacy.

Your life is not content for an algorithm. Your baby photos are not data points for targeting ads.

Actual Social isn't just a "private account" setting on a public network. We've built an environment completely devoid of advertising infrastructure, data brokers, and public sharing by design.

Sharing without spying. Period.

Who Actual Social is for

Built for the real relationships that make up your daily life.

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Families

Share milestones, travel memories, and everyday updates with relatives near and far, entirely privately.

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Parents

Post photos of your kids, activities, and messy moments safely to the right trusted circles of grandparents and close friends.

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Friends

Stay genuinely connected with your close friends without needing to curate a perfect online persona.

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Local Communities

Keep in touch with neighbours, school parents, sports teams, and small local groups in a calm environment.

Frequently asked questions

What is Actual Social?
Actual Social is a private social network built for real-life relationships. Instead of interacting with influencers, brands, and strangers driven by an algorithm, you only share and connect with specific circles of family, friends, and local communities.
Is this a public social media app?
No. There is no public "discover" feed. There is no way to go viral. You only see updates from people you have explicitly connected with, and you control exactly who sees every post you make.
Will there be ads?
Never. Actual Social will never show you advertisements, and we will never sell or harvest your data to build advertising profiles. Our business model will not rely on your attention or data.
How is this different from Instagram or Facebook?
Traditional social networks use algorithms to show you the most engaging (often polarizing or hyper-curated) content from creators and brands to keep you scrolling. Actual Social uses a simple, chronological feed that only shows updates from people you know personally, organized into distinct privacy circles.
Can I create different sharing groups?
Yes! This is the core feature. You can create custom circles (e.g., Immediate Family, College Friends, Neighbours) and select exactly which circles can see each update you share.
Is the app live yet?
We are currently in private beta testing. By joining the waitlist, you'll be among the first invited when we launch to the public.

Be first to try a better kind of social media

Join the waitlist for a calmer, more private app. We're opening up spots soon.

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